![]() ![]() There’s no changing his mind, and frankly, it’s not up to you to do so. When a guy says he isn’t ready, he’s still fixing himself, or whatever lame excuse he comes up with, it’s best to believe him. It’s not that he doesn’t want one with you, but this goes for any girl he comes across with. When you observe the signs and realize that he doesn’t want a serious relationship with you, it’s always best not to take it personally. ![]() Let’s start with talking about why a guy may NOT want a serious relationship for a bit here before we look at the right signs. Why wouldn’t he want a serious relationship? Too many women have hung onto signs of hope that a guy would change his mind only to spend months or even years waiting for more. No matter how much he cuddles, tells you he likes you, or spends time with you, if he says he doesn’t want a committed relationship, believe him. Just because the last guy you dated said the same thing, then got engaged six months after you broke up, it doesn’t mean he was lying. If a guy says he wants it to be casual, that he doesn’t want a relationship, or any version of that, take him at his word. This is the first thing you should understand. And instead of speaking up about what we want, we agree and act cool as a cucumber, hoping he will change his mind. Sometimes guy tells us he doesn’t want a relationship or that he just wants to be casual. If you really like him, ask him where he sees the relationship going *that is, if he hasn’t already told you*. There’s no point dating someone if you don’t really see it going anywhere. You’re not interested in wasting your time dating someone who doesn’t see a future with you. You should try to be honest with yourself if you see red flags early on that indicate that he is not truly interested in going further with you. This feeling sucks, we know, which is why you need to see the red flags before you fall head-over-heels for him. Sometimes, a guy may confuse you, leading you to believe that he wants a relationship with you when really, he simply wants something that’s no-strings-attached. Honestly, how can you know the signs he wants an exclusive and serious relationship with you?! One minute he can’t keep his hands off you. He can’t picture himself with anyone else other than you ![]()
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